Important note about invites to sites
Oct. 13th, 2013 05:38 pmI got more of those annoying email invites for some site called Boxbe. I don't know or care what this site is.
I have never, in my entire history online, ever joined a site by someone's email/Facebook invitation and I doubt I ever will. When I join a site it is because I have my own reasons to. I only joined Twitter after lots of foot-dragging because, at the time, I needed a way to aggregate links I was sharing onto my LJ; that's pretty much all I use it for still, except occasional visits to the Night Vale Twitter account. I only joined Tumblr, too, after lots of foot dragging, because there were so very many cool things being linked from there. I only joined Facebook for the games it has.
If I've never heard of a site, I might look at it once, and might join if it sounds interesting or useful. If it's popular, I'm likely to resist joining the bandwagon for as long as possible, because by nature I just don't like bandwagons. And I add pretty much any site I get email invites about to my "never in a million years" list. So inviting me to sites does the opposite of enticing me.
After months and months of it being popular, I still have not joined Pinterest. I have basically told Google Plus to fuck off. I'm more likely to grow horns than join Instagram. And the sun will likely grow cold before I join any of those websites that broadcast your location for everyone and their grandmother to see. Hell, I only joined the Soup.io bandwagon because Yahoo bought Tumblr, and Yahoo has this nasty reputation for censoring stuff that isn't "family friendly." Apparently, though I've not logged in for months, my Soup is still importing from Tumblr. :-)
So don't ever email invite me to any website. I don't care how cool you think it is, I have my own ideas about why to join things, and if I am going to join at all, it must be in my own time and for my own reasons.
I have never, in my entire history online, ever joined a site by someone's email/Facebook invitation and I doubt I ever will. When I join a site it is because I have my own reasons to. I only joined Twitter after lots of foot-dragging because, at the time, I needed a way to aggregate links I was sharing onto my LJ; that's pretty much all I use it for still, except occasional visits to the Night Vale Twitter account. I only joined Tumblr, too, after lots of foot dragging, because there were so very many cool things being linked from there. I only joined Facebook for the games it has.
If I've never heard of a site, I might look at it once, and might join if it sounds interesting or useful. If it's popular, I'm likely to resist joining the bandwagon for as long as possible, because by nature I just don't like bandwagons. And I add pretty much any site I get email invites about to my "never in a million years" list. So inviting me to sites does the opposite of enticing me.
After months and months of it being popular, I still have not joined Pinterest. I have basically told Google Plus to fuck off. I'm more likely to grow horns than join Instagram. And the sun will likely grow cold before I join any of those websites that broadcast your location for everyone and their grandmother to see. Hell, I only joined the Soup.io bandwagon because Yahoo bought Tumblr, and Yahoo has this nasty reputation for censoring stuff that isn't "family friendly." Apparently, though I've not logged in for months, my Soup is still importing from Tumblr. :-)
So don't ever email invite me to any website. I don't care how cool you think it is, I have my own ideas about why to join things, and if I am going to join at all, it must be in my own time and for my own reasons.