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alex_antoninI really don't get much out of sex. It's too much work as well. I liked bottoming the one time it happened, but I'm too anxious about STDs to really do it again, and I've since developed IBS and the occasional haemmeroids (which have been greatly helped by buying a Squatty Potty {oh great Satan I hate the name of that product but it really does work}).
I might possibly be asexual, on the spectrum somewhere. Where, though, I dunno. I still get sexually attracted to people. I still have fantasies. But the reality of sex sucks.
I have similar feelings about romance. (Don't get much out of it, it's too much work.) I might be on the aromantic spectrum as well. I still get crushes on people. But then I think about the work romance typically involves and I'm just like "Nope." And I can't tolerate living with other people. I can have visitors, I can visit others, but living together? Nope. I need to live alone, because I need my privacy and I need time to just chill and recharge on my own. I've tried doing that with other people in the house or apartment, and it doesn't work. If they're in my home, they could come bother me at any time, and that makes me tense. I also have trust issues which don't help matters.
Mostly I just want a cuddle buddy. Someone to come over and snuggle with a couple times a week. Though even that has its limits; I overheat easily, so the room would have to be fairly cool, or the fan blowing on us. Or both.
Bleh. Being a human is fucking annoying. I'd rather be a cat.
There we go, that's my label. I'm not aroace. I am cat.
I might possibly be asexual, on the spectrum somewhere. Where, though, I dunno. I still get sexually attracted to people. I still have fantasies. But the reality of sex sucks.
I have similar feelings about romance. (Don't get much out of it, it's too much work.) I might be on the aromantic spectrum as well. I still get crushes on people. But then I think about the work romance typically involves and I'm just like "Nope." And I can't tolerate living with other people. I can have visitors, I can visit others, but living together? Nope. I need to live alone, because I need my privacy and I need time to just chill and recharge on my own. I've tried doing that with other people in the house or apartment, and it doesn't work. If they're in my home, they could come bother me at any time, and that makes me tense. I also have trust issues which don't help matters.
Mostly I just want a cuddle buddy. Someone to come over and snuggle with a couple times a week. Though even that has its limits; I overheat easily, so the room would have to be fairly cool, or the fan blowing on us. Or both.
Bleh. Being a human is fucking annoying. I'd rather be a cat.
There we go, that's my label. I'm not aroace. I am cat.
